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Late last year I read this post by Garance Dore and was deeply moved by it. I think about being single in my 30s a lot these days. It being my grown up life. I imagined having met the guy and gotten married and had a kid or two by this point. In high school and college and out of college I dated plenty.

I had an on again and off again boyfriend for the better part of four years starting when I was I never had a hard time meeting people or getting dates. When I moved to New York at age 25 I assumed it would be the same.

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But then came adjusting to a new city in which I had enough friends to only count on one hand and then came my thyroid disease diagnosis. The latter veered me off course in more ways than I could have imagined as I gained weight and felt miserable. I could barely look at myself in the mirror let alone have an ounce of confidence to try and meet people to date. Once I started feeling more like myself, it took a long time till I was happy enough with myself to begin dipping my toe back in the dating pool.

And shortly after I did, I decided to become self employed and poured blood, sweat, tears and much of my free time, into making sure it was successful. And by the time I felt ready to get back to dating more seriously, it felt like everything had changed.

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Apps were now the way of life when it came to meeting people. My grandparents met in church. My parents in college. I get on every flight prepared at the possibility of meeting someone. I travel solo.

I read at the bar by myself. I smile at cute strangers. I go to church. I keep a mentality of being open to meeting someone. But here I am. Too comfortable being so independent.

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To be vulnerable. To be liked. I know a lot of married or coupled up people mean well when they ask about my dating life but so often, it comes across all wrong. The old maid.

The one who missed her chance. The woman who ended up paying the price for her professional success, or worse, the woman who preferred her career over her personal life. Those little side glances we give to people whose apparent misfortune makes us feel better about our own lives? The people who scare us because they are living through the things we are most afraid of in life? Being alone.

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I am living exactly where I want to be. I am affording my apartment, bills and lifestyle all on my own. I am running two companies. I am finally healthy. I like getting to just prioritize myself and my wants, my needs. But it hurts because I know I do want these things. The thing with most of these scenarios though, is that the happiness is in the eye of the beholder.

You can be happy and single in your 30s. And happy as a single mother. And happy as a divorcee. But, that is, in fact damn hard to do on a daily basis. Particularly in the age of social media. That I should focus less on work. That I should blog less.

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That I should go out more. I have this fear because lifetime companionship is what I know I want.

The other element I find so difficult about being single in your 30s is the cold, hard truth that if you do want children, you have a window. When I turned 32 I started thinking about this a lot. But my truth is that I do want children.

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I do want to get married and carry. And who is to say that once I meet the guy and get married, that having children will be easy? So, here I am, 34 in a few months, and single.

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Making efforts to meet people through a variety of apps and through the occasional set ups but finding it a lonely road that often feels like a full time job. I have celebrated alongside my closest friends their finding love, their getting married, their buying houses and their having children. Update: My follow up thoughts to the reaction to this post can be found here. Great post- honest and real. I was there as well. I did find my true love- just took time and in the mean while I found me. Same age, same city. No one wants to hang out.

Apps are ways of time. I want to meet real people to be friends to do activities with and date decent serious men. Again, like you i enjoy my freedom and own company but I also want life long companionship not just to get married for the sake of it or have kids for the sake of it. What are some of the places to meet people in NYC, especially during Covid All of my friends are married, have moved and are busy with their. People at work are older than me and married. Why do you go to meet new people to meet or hang out with not just for dating.

But especially if the city life is so lonely you want 1 or 2 friends to hang out with.

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Years ago I used meetup and made a TON of friends but not sure if those are running right now. This is an amazing post! While I was fortunate enough to meet my fiance in college, I feel your post said so many things that many of my friends have a hard time vocalizing. I really appreciate your continued honesty in this blog and I have loved reading along. So glad you enjoyed it and thank you for appreciating it through the lens of your single friends!

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I needed this post right now because while I am married met my husband at work, in the wild! This is a difficult decision for both of us, but we refuse to have until we both really want one. That time has not come and I am not sure it ever will. All of my friends and co-workers are having kids, and some are on their second kid already. Thank you for sharing your relatable experience, Rachel and for the kind and uplifting words! You truly are an inspiration to so many. You stated it perfectly in this post… One must love themselves before they are truly capable of loving others…I am a very busy mom of 4 but who one day a few years ago stumbled upon your blog and look forward to seeing your in my in box everyday.

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I have gotten some great ideas, introduced to some amazing companies and products,etc. As my mother ha told me since I was a little girl. Thank you for letting my posts be a part of your ever day! That means so much to me. Completely agree about the power of positive thinking! Thank you so much for the kind comment, Barbara! I am SO grateful I never married any of them. As it turned out, I was friends with my husband for several years before those feelings changed into something else.

It took work to merge our two very independent lives, and I doubt that effort would have been worth it for anyone else.