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ly I introduced you to the concept of what I call Mantourage Dating. One of the most advantageous by-products of dating with a Mantourage is the often controversial topic of Cuddle Buddies or Spooning Partners etc I looked up the definition in Urban Dictionary, and am laughing at the examples they provide.
It made me depressed and lonely. I started doubting my every move. I had no power of will. I just wanted to curl up in my bed and cry.
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Perdy the Birdy Official Bookworm! Suffering both Perdtasticalism and Pickleyickleitis [M]. Apr 6, GMT. I was having this conversation with a friend the other day, the difference between cuddle buddies and friends with benefits. What do you guys think of it all? Do you think it's a bad idea because it could be leading them on? Are they okay as long as clear lines have been established? Is one person going to become attached because that's just how it seems to work in the movies at least xD? Happy now Michael? Palagrin Addicted!
If you want this to be a serious discussion you should probably define both terms first. Apr 6, GMT Palagrin said:.
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Apr 7, GMT. I dunno. I don't have any guy friends who'd I'd lie around and kiss, but I do have guy friends who I curl up with and watch movies and junk. We don't kiss, but I usually sit in his lap and junk. We've been friends forever. I don't do friends with benefits. It's just not my thing.
I'm not even going to pretend I wouldn't get emotionally attached. Lydiaaaaa:D Slightly Addicted [M:0]. I mean, I don't do those relationships anyway, but seriously. If you're not attracted to the person, then why would you want to be all up on them.
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I wouldn't Sparrow Slightly Addicted [M]. Apr 8, GMT. I understand friends with benefits. Heck I've been in that kind of situation more than a few times. Sometimes I just want something physical and no complications. Sometimes she just wants someone to be there. Cuddle buddies though? Wow I really wouldn't go there with a 10ft barge pole. Those acts to me ify feelings and the possibility of a relationship, and I am not in a good position at the moment to be in a relationship.
All so what if you just want to hug and hold hands but she wants to be in a relationship? Or vice versa.
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That could be for a multitude of reasons such as we argue all the time etc etc. I dont think things like that should happen if there are no feelings. Why kiss and cuddle someone if you don't actually like them? If there's no emotion then why do it in the first place? It doesn't mean anything.
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Same for sexual relationships. People only ever get hurt in those types of relationships. I've been hurt from a friends with benefits relationship and I wasn't even involved. The person I liked and have liked forever got with someone as friends with benefits. She actually wanted more but settled for that since he didn't want anything more.
They didn't do anything cause after kissing he realised he didnt want that at all because he still liked someone else. She got hurt, told me god knows why- probably just to spite me and then I got hurt. If you love someone who wants friends with benefits just dont do it. Because maybe you are getting closer to them and maybe they could fall for you. But I would hate to be in a relationship with someone I love and for them not to actually love me back only want to use me for their own pleasure or for their own emotional needs.
Apr 7, GMT pixie said:. Apr 9, GMT. Just because you find someone attractive doesn't mean you share a chemistry with them.
You could both find each other super hot, but when you sit and talk together you could be as dull as rocks It's not the same as finding someone attractive and having that spark with them- being able to talk about nothing all day with them and still go away thinking "if i could do today over I wouldn't have changed a thing.
I thinik if there's no chemistry any relationship like that just wouldn't last, because chemistry between two people is what keeps it working- what keeps you wanting to see them. If you started off with no chemistry, either you'd get to know them and realise oh wait we do have chemistry because being intimate with someone means seeing sides of people you wouldn't normally- tbh in most cases it's weird to think of people being intimate cause it can change peoples personalities so much.
And being intimate opens emotions, makes you more likely to want to share things with them since you've already shared intimicy I just think its bad. I wouldn't ever want that, not even with someone I was desperately in love with who I knew I couldn't get any other way.
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Madi, it wasnt to spite you, ever thought she just needed to talk to someone because she was hurt? I dont support FWB at all, people get hurt because it's inevitable that someone will end up falling for the other, l have asked me before and hinted and I'm like no sexytime off. However, I'd rather FWB with the chance of getting hurt than 'cuddle buddies' purely because it's called 'cuddle buddies' I mean come on, wtaf?! PS Michael, I'm back, be glad.
Kai'ichi Competition Organiser You live, I'll dream. So what's the difference between cuddle buddies I read this as bunnies so many times and the relationship between very close friends?
Minus the kissing which needn't be part of cuddle buddies anyway. To me both are kind of interchangable, although by close friends I do mean close - not just "we're best friends alalalalala. Michael Admin [M][M]. Apr 9, GMT stacey said:. Feb 14, GMT Kai'ichi said:. Suffering both Perdtasticalism and Pickleyickleitis [M] Everyone has the right to stupidity, some abuse the privilege. Posts: 3, Posts: 2, Cuddle Buddy: A friend that you can sit at home and cuddle together, maybe kissing depending on how you both feel.
It's sort of a mutual agreement to both provide some sort of physical contact helping both parties emotionally. A friend with benefits, is pretty much the same, except replace the words 'cuddle' and 'kiss' with 'ravage sexually'. Again, not usually in a relationship, however both parties agree that sexual gratification is Cuddle buddies vs friends with benefits, so agree to have sex whenever one or the other is sexually frustrated or just had a bad day or whatever.
May lead to a partner, but less likely to transgress into a cuddle buddy.
It depends on how you feel emotionally, personally I'd take a cuddle buddy over a friend with benefits any day. But if you catch me when I'm feeling more I'm a cuddler though, rather than a sexual ravager. Sparrow Slightly Addicted [M] So you want a knight in shining armor? Ive got some tin foil and this stick. That okay? Posts: You are both attracted to eachother however there isn't a spark.
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PS Michael, I'm back, be glad I love you already. Sorry but out of all the people she had to talk to about it, she didn't need to tell me when she knows I'm crazy about her. She knew it would hurt me. And it did.