This topic contains 48 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by tammy 2 years, 1 month ago. Every date goes well. We have lots of fun and the conversation flows. However, at the end of it, he always just goes in for a hug. The dates are also quite original and are not just run-of-the mill dinner dates.
One time he asked me inside. We hung out in his room for a while but he still did nothing. Dating 3 months no kiss have been thinking maybe he is just interested in a friendship. But he seems to have plenty of friends and is very social. Anyway, please help. We are hanging out again on Friday so I will see then. Does he always pay? Past relationships. Does he call you sweet names on texts and compliment you? I agree, it is odd. You may just have to ask him. I felt the most on our last date, but they also have a very friendly vibe to them. Great news. Keep him as a friend. Why are all women in this site so interested in hooking a man for a romantic relationship?
Friendship is much better. Seeing such high levels of desperation in a woman, a man is naturally tempted to use them for sex. What is a kiss? Go for emotional bonding and friendship instead. Maybe he is just Dating 3 months no kiss to take it slow? Maybe this is how he operates. If he wanted to impress you also he would let it show. He is gay or bi-sexual, I think. I have gay friends and do not judge them for their preferences.
They are awesome friends—the best. You even can get attached to and even love them in a certain way, and they love you in return. The times I dated men who were like this were just uninterested in sex with women. It does not get any better. I had a friend like this in high school also. She dated a guy for a while and then found out he was not heterosexual but happening upon him with another man.
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Sometimes the guy is just wanting to take things slow or is being respectful. Maybe try to do some sort of physical touch, maybe try to touch his hand or something and see what he does. Last guy i dated for 3 months took 4 dates to kiss me or hold my hand. I also started to feel like maybe he just wants friendship. We had intense sexual and physical chemistry. Guy i dated before him took 7 dates to even put his arm around me.
We had our first kiss also on that 7th date and we dated for 6 months.
So Id say dont automatically assume he is not interested romantically as some guys do like to take things slow. What kind of things u said and did on ur dates?
This idea that we should kiss to see where it goes, instead of seeing where it goes and kissing the right one is kind of crazy. you’re committing to a stranger, and then hoping he’s mr. right, instead of mr. uhoh.
But he asked a lot about my thoughts in family and kids and he expressed how he could not wait to see me. I think if a guy is interested in u romantically, u coukd feel it. So we had another date tonight. It went really well and I felt like it was more romantic than it had been ly.
He was more touchy and kept trying to pay for stuff. But then at the end of the night, still no kiss!!
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I was sure it was going to happen this time. And he responded saying he was worried it would have been impertinent to kiss me and that next time it would be a date. Who lives in the 21st century and thinks its impertinent to kiss someone on the 6th date? Any further advice would be appreciated. Ciara, I think it is very strange that he has not kissed you till the 6th date. I know you spoke with him about it but still body language could convey a lot.
It could be your body language etc. There are times I am out with a guy and since I am a really friendly person and if the guy knows that then he has wrongly assumed that I was just being friendly with him whereas I have liked him more than a friend, but my actions have just been friendly.
I suggest you should keep it platonic with him continue to be friends- he seems like great friend material and in terms of friend material, a total keeper and date other guys. Run, run, run away. How much chemistry is there between you? Well, actually, it depends on the lifestyle you want to have. She has a father and a stepmonster excuse me.
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She needs me to be focused on her, not trial and error trying to find and make relationships work. It is too stressful. I keep that part of my life separate from my family life. BUT, I have seen happy couples out there who have merged families. It is possible. Dating 3 months no kiss might not have kids anyway.
Have an understanding that you are just friends. I have an ex like that and it works beautifully. We are truly there for each other, but zero attraction. You have to be equal in that area—of how important, deep-rooted, passionate, attraction is.
Some people are hardwired. I truly believe this, based on personal experiences. When I say zero attraction, I do not mean that we are unattracted or find each other unattractive, it is just neutral, like brother and sister. Friends, will say. The second you kiss someone, the intent is taken to a different place. Maybe you guys should drink some more on your dates.
He maybe quite shy around women. Its not every guy that sticks his tongue down ur throat in the first few dates. Amy S, how would drinking more help? If there is tension and heart pounding going on, as Jenny says, then I agree. If there something there, you will hear from him again. The universe puts people in my life, and things go where they go.
If my daughters father, to whom I was married for 15 years, and I had waited and gotten to know each other, we would have realized we were not compatible—a cancer and a gemini—not a good match. However, we would not have had our beautiful daughter that we carefully planned 10 years into the marriage.
Those relationships you’ve left behind, did the kisses you shared on first, second, or third dates give you any indication of what would tear you apart down the road?
Life is a journey of happiness and sorrow; but there is no love purer than between a mother and. Drinking more is not going to help at all. Trust me I used to drink heavily with my ex, and that whole scenario was a mess. You want this guy to be genuine. But, hey each guy is different, so honestly just ask him what he is looking for the next time you see him. IMO, 5 dates is a really long time to not give a al that you are interested in something more than friendship.
Taking it slow is great, but you can still be respectful and take it slow while allowing someone to see that you are attracted to them.