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You are absolutely, mind-blowingly, heart-meltingly in love, but there's just a small problem. You've only known the person for a few months or maybe only a few weeks. You're both hearing wedding bells, but that's crazy, right?

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In the past couple of months, a lot of my mates in long-term relationships have called it quits. Most were amicable, some were down right brutal.

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Cortney Rene. You fall in love. You discuss the future, you share your hopes, dreams, and plans for the future with one another. Six months go by…. You discuss marriage and children. Another year goes by….

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Being honest with ourselves, we know that every relationship has its own path. Some people meet, fall in love, and get engaged quickly. Others take things slower and it could be years before they take that next step. But, as I get older, I find myself and many of my still single friends discussing the simple question: how long is too long to wait before marriage?

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But, being in a committed relationship with someone who wants children it does raise the question…. There are many factors involved when it comes to relationship timing and waiting for the right person. Among them, the biggest at play are typically ageand whether or not you want marriage and children. I have friends who dated many, many years prior to getting hitched.

Typically, these people also met very young and dated several years or more before taking that next step into Have we been dating too long. In your 20s, you may not feel the same urgency regarding your relationship status. Many young women and men are waiting longer and longer to take that leap into marriage. Millenials are often too busy focusing on their careers, building wealth or getting out of student debt to even consider jumping into marriage.

Then suddenly, college and your 20s are gone, life gives you a reality check, and you may find yourself in a position where time is not on your side. And, this is where things get complicated. So what should you do?

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Keep waiting? Or, ignore it all together and ride it out? Maybe you want to be young, hip parents, so marriage and children are on the brain sooner.

Then, waiting and dating longer feels comfortable and is the right thing to do. On the flip side, I have a very dear friend who waited all through her 20s and most of her 30s before finding Mr. Right—who happens to be During their courtship, they discussed marriage and the fact that they both want children. Just over a year later they are now engaged and ready to begin their life together. And, knowing this friend the way I do, she would not have waited two, three, or more years for him to pull the trigger.

Sometimes, time is of the essence, especially for women.

I also have two friends who dated each other for ten years — ten!! Well, guess what?

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They discovered they absolutely could not live together and the relationship disintegrated. Now they are both happily married to other people, one has and the other a baby on the way.

And both of those were much quicker courtships that led to marriage. So, you see, every relationship is different.

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And a lot of it has to do with timing and what you want from said relationship. So, be open and be honest with your partner about your feelings. Any partner worth their salt will respect your opinion. Just be sure to remain open to theirs. Some things are worth the wait and others may require compromise. Besides, who wants to force someone into being with them? However, it should also be noted that no one should have to sacrifice what they truly want by waiting too long.

If marriage and family is important to you, then have that conversation with your partner up front.

Loving someone openly and authentically means discussing topics important to you and your ificant other. Speak from the heart.

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Waiting for Mr. Cortney Rene originally hails from the East Coast but has been calling Denver home for the past five years. She enjoys snowboarding, hiking, rock climbing, and is a dedicated Barre convert and passionate about animals.

She's been blessed to have had the opportunity to live and travel abroad, and still has a lengthy bucket list of countries she wishes to see and experience. Time to get clear and get honest. Recommended for you 7 Years. No Ring.