But the way men and women approach sex is vastly different from each other. From their turn-ons and sexual motivations to their sexual drive and conflict-resolution style—everything differs.
And it brought about an interesting insight into the female psyche. I have a very peculiar libido. It rises if I am mentally satisfied with the person.
If I am not then nothing works. When the person has done enough things to make me feel loved, special and wanted, only then I can have sex with them. What could be the reason for this? Everyone loves to be treated well before they get intimate.
You have the right to have sex the way you want to. No two people have libidos that are exactly aligned. Keen to understand better the differences in sexuality between men and women, we asked Prachi to help us list down the basic points.
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Scroll down to read them! Whenever anyone is trying to turn their partner on, the first thing to remember is that their anatomy is different and their perceptions are different. For a man, sex is a leisure activity. It is something to relax with, something that causes a release of built-up sexual tension.
For women, it is an emotional event. So, wooing has to be involved. Women are also usually more aesthetically advanced than men.
So, things like body odour, ambience, etc. Her priority is to first resolve the conflict. But for men, sex is a way to reestablish the broken connection. Many men also get turned on by an emotionally-charged scene. Then, gradually move into mutual pleasure.
When the moment is mutual, then this is not relevant. Do him something to make his eyes pop. Bend over in front of him to give him a nice visual treat.
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Figure out what his fantasies are. Have you ever put on a fragrance he liked?
Just FYI, men usually find a hint of vanilla quite a turn on! Find out what he likes, and stay far away from judgement! Wishing you lo of fun and pleasure!
What is your most pressing concern when it comes to your sexual well-being? Please share it with us in the comments below!
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