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This article was written by Bo Alexis and provided by our partners at YourTango. Happy-ending massage stories are pretty common, a mixture of truth, half-truth, and urban legend that captivates the imagination of men, even in this age of casual sex and unlimited Internet porn. Most of these stories are about women providing such services to men as the high point of a massage. These women average more than million visits per year, so it's not surprising that juicy tales of women receiving happy-ending massages are increasing. The truth of the matter is far more women receive erotic or sensual massages than the public is aware of. Some women present themselves as "ripe and ready" for an explicitly erotic experience by indicating their desire through body language and other thinly veiled alluring behaviors.
This guide has been updated for It is meant to be a definitive guide on giving a sensual massage so you have all the tools you need to give her a night she will remember forever. Here we go, enjoy.
Slow music, gentle hands, comfort and relaxation? We could go really deep into this and read about 80 massage therapy styles along with a wide variety of pressures, movements and techniques.
2) use erotic oils or lotions.
But we are not going to. You are not a massage professional, and what really matters here is perfecting a gesture that it can be used as a powerful foreplay. Even if you only give her a 10 minute rubdown, you will be rewarded with a relaxed and happy woman in your arms or in your bed.
Before you can learn how to give a sensual massage, you have to learn the ingredients. Learning, and putting them together in the right way, will have a big effect on her pleasure and getting the outcome you want.
Setting the mood is one of the most important steps in a sensual massage. The massage is meant to be sensual! You need her to feel as comfortable as possible. First, dim the lights and light a few candles. This provides a nice romantic ambiance. Next, prepare your place for a massage.
Find a good firm surface for her to lie down your bed, a beach towel, on the floor or even on a table. If you are giving her a simple hand or scalp massage, a chair will do just fine. Music is a vital part of setting the right mood. If a romantic massage is an appetizer before the main course, then choose something sexy like soul music or if its for relaxation then go for soft and slow blues, or even nature sounds such as running water or the sounds of the rain forest.
The list of appropriate oils you can use is long. Experiment with a few and find what you like.
You can find all these and more at the health food store. Also, spa shops and skin care stores have a big variety of blended massage oils containing two or more oils. These can be very appealing. Or just purchase some online from the link here. Almond oil is one of the most popular and my personal favorite as a woman. It is slightly oily, but allows your hands to slide smoothly. Now that you have all the ingredients to a great sensual massage its time to learn the various techniques.
The part of the body you are going to play with and the length of the play depend on your relationship with the woman. If it is a date ten — give her a present of a Ladies i giving a full body sensual massage body massage. Nothing says romance like the gift of relaxation. Shiatsu is the main massage technique used in Japan and it is pretty easy to learn. If you have ever gotten a nice back massage and felt someone rubbing out your knots with their thumbs then you have had the shiatsu style treatment.
Just lay your hands or fingers on a certain spot while applying some pressure and rotate slowly. Try to find some knots in her upper back and loosen them up, but not too hard to the point that she is in pain. If you are really experienced, you can use your elbow on places that really could use the pressure. Compression is another common technique used in massage. Basically you just press down on one area, increasing blood flow and loosening the muscle. This is a good move to do before partaking in a deeper massage such as shiatsu, just to warm things up and get the blood flowing.
This is also great on the buttocks, where you can place one hand on top of the other and rotate slowly. The stroking technique is essentially long gentle movements with your hands along a portion of her body. Keep your fingers together, thumbs parallel and palms in full contact with the body part you are massaging.
This is extremely pleasing on all areas of the body. Friction is an advanced technique, but is perfect for using on her hands and feet. The friction technique rarely requires the use of oils, which is why you build up so much friction between your hand and her body.
How to give a sensual massage: the essential ingredients
It is a focused stroke, which is used in some really small area with a certain amount of stability and pressure. The kneading massage is great for getting deep into muscles and is perfect for her buttocks or any other fleshy areas. If you are doing it very gently you can do it anywhere. She can feel uncomfortable and fat. Kneading is similar to the way a baker kne bread. Have you ever made bread in before?
Its really very simple. The way you do the kneading massage is by grasping and lifting the tissue not too high! First the palms press down on muscle tissue, then you push your fingers together and then then you move upward in a lifting motion. All of these massage moves go great together. For example: Apply Shiatsu to her shoulders, then use a little bit of oil and stroke the back, knead the buttocks, stroke the thighs and calves and finish off with a gentle friction on the soles of her feet. Guide to Kneading Massage.
So now you have the perfect setup for giving your sensual massage. Your ready to give the perfect sensual massage and have her graciously returning the favor.
Wife Not Interested in Sex? A head massage can be extremely relaxing. Plus they are perfect for a girl who you have not yet been intimate with, and who may be a little hesitant to letting you touch her sensitive areas. Have her lie down on her stomach with her head on a pillow.
If she is uncomfortable without a massage table she can turn her head to one side and change its position from time to time.
Also, if its easier for you, you can give a head massage if she is in any comfortable seated position. Start by rubbing her temples and forehead. Then, run fingers through her hair and apply gentle downward pressure. Massage the entire scalp in this manner for as long as you wish, and then kiss her ears sensitive erogenous zone at the end.
Back, shoulder and neck massage is what you think of right away when you hear the word massage.
And for good reason. This is one of the most relaxing massages to receive and can quickly turn into a sensual evening. For this, the woman has to be face down and her back must be bare. Get a moderate amount of oil, warm it in your hands and apply to her upper body. Start with long strokes on her back, up and down. Then start to do some Shiatsu and kneading to the shoulders, while every once in a while progressing to gently stroke the neck. The bonus of this sensual rubdown is that eventually you will make your way down to the buttocks, which we will cover in 3.
The buttocks are a highly erotic area meant to be spoiled with your new moves. This is a very sensual massage that is perfect for a romantic foreplay.
1) set the mood.
Just make sure she is game before you start. Place your palms on her erotic mounds and massage in circular movements. Increase the pressure gradually as you cover every area. Next, place your hands on her right buttock and use the kneading technique. Remember, create a roll of skin using your thumbs and push it up. Repeat on the left side.
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She may just enjoy this as much as you. She will be pleased if you stroke her thighs and calves, knead them lightly and caress them using your fingertips. Make sure not to put too much pressure on the knee pits while you use your thumbs to gently massage the area around the kneecap. For a leg massage, it is best to have her lie on her back. The feet are a very special part of the body. They are literally a sensual map of all the body, reflecting different organs and even personality. Have her lie down on her back. Do not press too much in any small areas because you can make her have diarrhea for a week trust me, its possible.
Start from the heel and go up. Be gentle, but not too soft — press a little and work with your thumbs.